Big girl panties - of course!! cause we have to be big girls!! no crying and pouting or whining!!
Box of tissues - these are for when we toss aside the big girl panties and act like babies anyway
Valiums - everyone needs one at some point... maybe you can't sleep, or maybe you need something to calm you down b/c you have that crazy notion in your head to go bitch at your husbands command... yeah, pop a valium!!
Shot glass with your fave alcohol - mine would have southern comfort, how about yours?
BOB - make sure you stock up on batteries...deployments are long =)