Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Stay or go?

Women in that position... stay or go?

Stay for the sake of the kids? Stay for the sake of love that you HOPE is still there? Stay because you're scared to leave since he is all you know? Stay because you believe in the deepest parts of your soul that it will all work out in the end?

Go for the sake of your sanity? Go for the sake of the kids? Go because just maybe that belief in the deepest parts of your souls is wrong, that it won't work out?

How do you decide? Do you wait until you've had enough? Until you've reached your breaking point? What is your breaking point? When is it enough?

Cheating, lies, head games... what more can you can take? How much more can you handle before you snap? What's that? Do it back you say? Show him what it's like to be on the receiving end? At what price? What will that cost your soul, your integrity, your morals and self-worth?

In the end, he's the one who has to live with how he is... and what a person to live with.



  1. <3 you Jamie. only you can decide. I wish I could help you :(

    rissa (cause it will say anon lol)

  2. It's never a easy choice when children are involved, I finally decided that my little ones couldn't be happy if I wasn't, so I left and now we are ALL happy, even the ex.

  3. thank you anonymous for sharing =)

  4. I just had to decide this- today.

    I chose to leave.

  5. good luck with your choice! only you and your other half knows everything that you two share together. if the love is real it will all work out for the best

  6. i agree, only the two of us know what we share and what we have been through.... thank you for your kind words =)